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During lockdown, I matched with a woman that I had previously met around Kilkenny.  I was fairly excited to match with somebody local as we weren’t supposed to go further than 5KM at that point.  And this was a woman with whom I had previously had a pleasant conversation.  So, obviously I asked if she wanted to meet for a coffee…

“I think that might feel a bit weird.”

What
The
Fuck?!?

I’ve had conversations that didn’t go anywhere. I’ve had conversations with random people who had no intention of meeting with me (and vice versa). But trying to meet a fellow human for coffee during a pandemic that you’ve already previously met and should be pretty sure I’m not some fucking psycho, and that’s WEIRD?!? To this day, this interaction deeply upsets me, and I don’t know why. I mean, I am really fucking weird, ask anybody who has met me. But I don’t see how meeting for a coffee “might feel a bit weird”.

Anyhow, fuck her. Or not. Since we never met.